A Regret Parent's Communication Guide, From A Circumcised Son

A Regret Parent's Communication Guide, From A Circumcised Son

One of the most difficult parts of being circumcised is the mental and emotional damage. Though it won’t be easy, you need to tell your son the truth. You need to tell him what happened to his body, you need to explain everything to him, and you need to be supportive.

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Dad's 2nd Son Stays Intact..."I Stopped Hiding From My Feelings"

Dad's 2nd Son Stays Intact..."I Stopped Hiding From My Feelings"

I bullied and convinced my wife to cut our oldest child without any factual reasons.

While in that room, I witnessed first-hand a total of five circumcisions. Seeing how those boys reacted and changed was just heartbreaking. I knew in my heart and mind that it wasn't right, but still continued pushing my reasons for getting it done.

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Circumcision Regret Moms Speak Out

Circumcision Regret Moms Speak Out

I watched the procedure in horror, and have never let another person make decisions for my children other than me. Everyday I think of the pain he suffered. Now I hold my perfect and intact baby boy desperately wishing I could make it all better with my oldest son.

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THE WEDGE: Relationship Strain From Circumcision Decision

THE WEDGE: Relationship Strain From Circumcision Decision

But there's one topic here in America that seems to drive a wedge between husband and wife that rocks at least one of you to the core.

That wedge? Circumcision.

She's against it, but you want it done. You tell yourself that she's going to just have to get over it. Your son is getting circumcised. End of discussion. (or is it?)

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ONE MOM'S LETTER To The Doctor Who Cut Her Son

ONE MOM'S LETTER To The Doctor Who Cut Her Son

I am writing to you on behalf of my 3-year-old son. He has always been a blessing to my husband and me. Since the day we found out he was coming, we were ecstatic to be welcoming another addition to our family. He was born PERFECT on Aug. 19, 2012. The reason I am writing to you is because on Aug. 20, my perfect baby boy was taken from my hospital room, strapped down, and mutilated surgically for NO REASON at all other than the pure ignorance of our society. I was misinformed on the “benefits” of circumcision and was not fully informed of the risks of this unnecessary procedure.

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Time Ran Out: Mom Regrets Ignoring Anti-Circumcision Message With First Son

Time Ran Out: Mom Regrets Ignoring Anti-Circumcision Message With First Son

I made a mistake, but I was also courageous enough to say “I was wrong” and do better in the future. That is a powerful lesson my children can learn from when they are old enough and the circumcision talk can be broached on a more serious level.

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Shouldn't They Match? Help For Parents With Circumcised Kid(s) Facing The Decision Again

Shouldn't They Match? Help For Parents With Circumcised Kid(s) Facing The Decision Again

Let’s set the scene. You have one or more children who were circumcised before you questioned the procedure. Maybe you regret putting them through that pain and/or have started to feel badly about doing it at all. You’re jumping in feet first to learn more and arm yourself with information. Now you’re pregnant and you have to make the decision again. Suddenly, a question creeps into your inner dialog from the recesses of your mind: Won’t this child feel left out? Maybe I should circumcise this one too since it’s the ‘norm’ for our family…

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