A Human Rights Issue (Dr. Kenneth Zatz, Pediatrician)
"There are a lot of medical arguments attempting to justify circumcising our newborn boys. There are many statistics touting the benefits for urinary infections, HIV transmission, penile cancer, and other entities. These benefits are often marginal, debatable, or irrelevant to an infant. Websites, such as that of the American Academy of Pediatrics, can provide the most positive view of this procedure.'
A Fractured Soul (Max Fairshield, 19 years old)
"Since I have begun researching and speaking out about a topic of importance, I have heard many people say so many horrible, insensitive things. I have heard parents speak sentences that no caring, sane parent should utter."
Almost a Regret Mom (Trish, YWB Director)
"In January 2015 my husband and I found out we were pregnant with our first child. The first thing I said to my husband is if it was a boy I didn't want him circumcised and if it was a girl she couldn't get her ears pierced until she asks for them after she starts elementary school. My husband was fine with the ear piercing but thought if we had a son he should be circumcised. His reasoning was primarily that since he was, so should his son be, and because he felt he would get made fun of if he stayed whole."
Animal Rights for Human Babies (Jen Williams, YWB Founder)
"Within days of his birth, he is taken from the comfort and security of his mother, he is strapped down against his will and part of his tiny body is cut off with limited to no pain relief. He thrashes in a desperate attempt to free himself and he cries, a devastating cry of distress, a heartbreaking plea for help, but no one responds and the cutting continues. Is this a day at a factory farm or a day in an American hospital’s maternity ward?"
Are You Fully Informed? (James Ketter)
"Below you will find the twenty-three page consent form that all parents should be given before they make the decision to permanently modify their son's genitals. Sadly, American parents are only given a page or two with minimal information and it's often mixed in with a stack of other documents parents are meant to sign without truly reading. Please do not make a body altering, life changing decision for your perfect newborn without reading this consent form first."
Circumcision: The Untold Story (Max Fairshield, 19 years old)
"Circumcision is a rather taboo topic in most of American society. It’s like America's dirty secret that everyone knows about but ignores. For a country that seems so obsessed with the human body, freedom, and sex, you’d think people would be more open."
Five Issues YOU Might Have to Overcome Before Choosing Not to Circumcise Your Son...
"Let’s be honest, it can be hard to go against the grain. There are evolutionary reasons why people are drawn to following the herd and not standing out. But, as humans, there are also plenty of benefits to being the odd (wo)man out and speaking up about things that are wrong."
I Want Him Back
"It was three years ago when my husband and I found out we were having a boy during my anatomy ultrasound. There was no question in either of our minds as to whether he would be circumcised. We happily checked "yes" to circumcision on our birth plan without a second thought. It was the normal thing to do."
It's Time to Understand (Greyson Murphy)
"Hi Mom and Dad! It’s your 21-year-old son! The son you cried over when you first saw him exposed to the light of the world. The son you lovingly cared for as he grew out of infancy, watching him gain independence, make mature decisions, and turn into the handsome man you see when you close your eyes and picture him smiling."
Meet James Ketter
"When I say I was damaged by infant circumcision, I should be specific. There wasn't anything immediately wrong with the genital cutting I was subjected to. My parents and the doctor were quite happy with the immediate result, and frankly, other than a few hurtful comments on how short my penis appeared, I didn't know any different as a child. Puberty changed everything."
One Man's Letter
"To the Doctor Who Cut Me Without My Consent, I doubt you will remember me but when I was an infant you violated my rights and mutilated my body. I am writing you this letter to make you fully aware of the atrocities that you have committed and my feelings about them. When I was a newborn infant you held me down and cut my foreskin off of my penis."
One Mom's Letter
"To Whom It May Concern: I am writing to you on the behalf of my three year old son. He is an amazing child. He is full of energy and life. He has always been a blessing to my husband and me."
Regret Moms Remember
"A compilation of memories from moms who regret having their sons circumcised."
The Wedge (Joe, Little Images, Board of Directors)
"You and your wife get along pretty well. I mean, you wouldn't have married her in the first place if that weren't the case, right? But there's one topic here in America that seems to drive a wedge between husband and wife that rocks at least one of you to the core. That wedge? Circumcision."
They Lied to Me (Chelsea Fields, YWB State Director)
"I am in tears as I write this. This is going to be one of the hardest things I have ever done, but I think it is necessary. Nearly 7 years and 2 months ago I was sitting in a bed listening to the music of the hospital: The humming of the blood pressure monitor, the tweeting of the machines, and the shuffling of nurses' feet. I was terrified and excited. I would soon be bringing my first child into this world."
This IS Genital Mutilation
"I want you to understand exactly what you did to me. You're a doctor, and you've literally amputated parts from my genitals, so I am going to assume that you don't need to be spared any details. You took too much. You didn't leave me with enough skin to cover my penile shaft. The result was that my earliest memories of experiencing erections as a child are memories of severe, prolonged pain."
Time Ran Out
"I fell pregnant with my first child in late 2008. I was 19 years old. My mother was not shy or private on the matter of circumcision growing up. I often heard her use crude terms about intact penises and other derogatory descriptions we are used to hearing in our society: “turtle neck,” “pencil dick,” “gross,” “dirty,” “ugly,” and “smelly.”
Ballooning (Confessions of a Crunchy Mama)
"When my second son Andrew was approximately 12 months old, he had a urinary tract infection so bad his urine became sort of like sludge. It would ooze out when he urinated, and appeared gritty. Our family doctor cleared it up with antibiotics, but after that his urine started becoming trapped inside of his foreskin after he urinated, the opening of the foreskin would be squeezed shut, and only a drop or two would exit. I don't know if this was related to the UTI in some way, but the trapped urine happened after the UTI."
Circumcision for the Child at Risk of UTIs (Dr. Adrienne Carmack, Board-Certified Urologist)
"What about non-"routine" "preventive" male infant circumcision? Should I circumcise my child whose medical condition puts him at risk from UTIs?"
Don't Fear the Foreskin
"You need to know that leaving your son’s body whole is not a scary, radical decision. The foreskin is not a ticking time bomb, and you do not have to live in fear of it causing problems. It is a normal, functional part of the body. Just as you were not worried about letting your daughter keep her whole genitals at birth, you do not need to worry about your son keeping his."
"Many people in the United States still believe that parents rarely keep their sons intact and that doing so will lead to many complications. Your Whole Baby has the privilege of interacting with many families who have intact sons, adults who have intact partners, and intact men. This normalizes intact for us, and we are lucky enough to see that intact is awesome."
Premature Foreskin Retraction, Dr. Adrienne Carmack, Board Certified Urological Surgeon
"As a urologist, I have had to do circumcisions on young boys because of scarring and infections that developed as a result of either doctors forcibly retracting their foreskins or parents doing it on doctor's advice... Parent's are routinely taught that this important. It's not.... it is of utmost importance that no one but the child messes with his foreskin... Their foreskin will separate with their own tugging and manipulation..."
"Male circumcision is harmful in a number of ways and some of the damage can't be reversed: the loss of the approximately 20,000 nerve endings cannot be undone. The erogenous tissue of the foreskin is gone. However, there are two functions of the foreskin that can be restored."
Yeast & Irritation
"Yeast and irritation happen to both boys and girls. Treatment is simple and foreskin amputation is unnecessary. Learn tips and tricks for quickly treating yeast."
"Imagine that you’re changing your two-year-old son’s diaper one day and you notice a lump on his penis that you hadn’t seen before. If you had to describe it, you’d call it a cyst."
Screenshots of Sadness
"If seeing is believing then these screenshots should help to convince you that genital cutting is painful, damaging and has many common complications. We see posts like this almost daily. The majority of the developed world does not cut the foreskin off of their baby boys. It is an archaic and barbaric practice that must end now."
The Problem with Soap and the Intact Penis
"Contrary to popular belief, the intact penis is not difficult to care for and keep clean. In fact, it is the all-too-frequent overzealous attempts to clean that cause the issues. The best and most accurate advice that all should follow is to leave it alone, never retract an infant or child, and never use soap under the foreskin."
What if it's Too Late? Healing After Circumcision (Dr. Adrienne Carmack, Board-Certified Urologist)
"Since I've come to understand the normal anatomy and function of the male genitalia, it has been impossible to overlook the harms caused by circumcision. I have witnessed firsthand how circumcision directly interferes with normal sexual functions and also frequently causes other complications such as meatal stenosis, irregular healing, and disruptions in sensation."
"New parents are sometimes concerned to find dark pinkish-orange spots in their intact baby’s diaper during the first few days of life, and worry it might be blood in the baby’s urine."
List of Places to Card
"There are so many places to leave intact information cards and plant seeds of change. Check out this comprehensive list and start carding today!"
The Medical Community Failed My Son
"These are the faces of moms and dads who trusted that their medical community knew best. They were told circumcision was healthier. They were asked to sign the consent form without being fully informed. They were told that circumcision should be a parent's decision. They were told it was "just a little snip." They were made to believe "it's just what you do." Or they were told nothing at all."
Breastfeeding & Your Baby (Sylvia, RN/YWB Director)
"I love breastfeeding! As a momma who has successfully breastfed three babies beyond their first year, as well as donated breast milk towards multiple babies in need, I have a passion for seeing other mommas succeed in breastfeeding. We all know there are many physical and emotional benefits to breastfeeding, so you’d think it would come completely naturally. But each mother-baby pair is unique, and has to develop their own breastfeeding relationship."
Car Seat Safety
"Did you know that 9 out of 10 parents use or install car seats incorrectly? Unintentional Motor Vehicle Traffic Accidents are the leading cause of injury deaths in the United States. Is your child as protected as he or she can be? At Your Whole Baby we strive to keep children safe from unnecessary harms such as injury from incorrect car seat use."
Congrats! It's a Boy!
"Welcome, researching parents! You are here because you have never loved anyone as much as you love your unborn child. You want to make sure you are doing right by him and making the best parenting decisions you can for him. Not just for when he is a baby, but for when he is an adult."
"This is a collection of adorable, fun, and creative pregnancy announcements submitted by our Your Whole Baby community and fans. We hope you find some great ideas and inspiration for announcing your next bundle of joy!"
The Big Potty
"The transition from wearing diapers to using a potty can sound stressful to both caregivers and children. Here are some ideas from parents who have been there. We hope these suggestions help you and your child navigate this change without too much trouble!"
"Today’s parents are questioning many things that are routinely done to babies at birth. One of these is the Vitamin K injection which is meant to increase blood clotting in a newborn."